Judging...Face Off

     I have been trying to be more aware of my energy towards others lately.  Tonight, while watching a "reality" show, I realized that I was critiquing as if I had a right to.  Anyone here watch Face Off?
  Well, there was a girl on the show with an injured hand that has not been able to perform to her best capabilities for the past few weeks.  When working as a team in two's, they sent her partner home a couple weeks ago.  I spoke out loud to the TV (as if it could hear me).  I said that it was unfair that the girl that was injured should have stepped down and let her team member stay.  Well, tonight she finally did that.  It made me realize that, even in my own life, I can't control what other people do.  I just need to send everyone love and be patient, knowing that in their own time they will do what is right, or wrong.  Either way, it is not my life, not my decision...
     Things always happen for a reason (in real life, excluding television created for ratings) and I must be the strong one to bite my tongue, be positive, be supportive and love my fellow brothers and sisters no matter what they do or how they act.  LOVE is the most important thing in life.  I shouldn't judge, even a TV show, because if that was me up there, I wouldn't want the tables turned.  It's only FAIR to give everyone in life, including myself, the benefit of the doubt and allow us all to mature and grow at our own pace with LOVE and patience..  That's what life is about!  Lesson learned..  :)